I have 15 minutes to write as am in Hurry to go to office. One of the reason you see lots of mistakes in spelling and grammatical errors in StarSai is because I write in hurry during the morning hours or when am too tired and sleepy at night. I try to make it better at times by editing but honestly, Am not a good writer too. Wish I marry someone who loves to write or at least read what I write so that I can push all the Editing work to her. he he….
You Can Live is a series I wanted to present to Sai devotees who are really fed up with life, who feel Saibaba is not helping them and who really face painful situation in life. There are times when I have seen Sai Devotees write me that am not praying Saibaba any more, Sai has crores of devotees. So he doesn’t bother me etc.
Mathematics of Karma:
You See, There’s a Mathematics in life. Every good or bad deeds you do in this birth and previous birth is taken in to account. Sometimes, no matter how much good you do in this birth, It only has been tallying the bad deeds you did in previous birth. This is the reason you must have heared some people telling ” We only do good but why such hardships comes to us”
Saibaba has blessed me with few incidents relating a person’s life with Mathematics.
In 2010, My Mom’s elder brother was hospitalized and I was with him for 3 days. He has never been too devoted to Sai and Dattatreya all his life. When I Learnt that he has cancer, I sent him a Book of Shirdi Sai baba. When I met him in hospital, he asked me to teach how to chant and I taught him. He kept chanting “Sai Dhigambara”
It must be early morning 4 when I got a dream like this..
I saw someone writing lots of equations and solving a maths problem. After many steps done very quick, a result comes. As soon as the dream ended, my Aunt called me and asked me to help my uncle as he wanted to go Bathroom. When I helped him itself, he was too weak.
The same afternoon my uncle passed away. The fortunate thing about this is that though my Uncle never was devoted to Sai, he was truly remembering Sai and Datta Avatar the last 3 days in his life. I went to our Kula devtha temple and asked my aunt to give him thirtha. Only after drinking it, he passed away.
I realized that every life has a Maths associated with it.We all are formulated and equated based on our good and bad deeds. So don’t worry when you face failures. Stay the nice person you are and some day Sai will bring happiness in your life.
You Can Live – Ways to make yourself more confident when things don’t work as you desire:
Some times on How to make yourself confident.
I am just guessing OK and also am in hurry. So please add your points as comments
1. Don’t think about your problem:
All of us don’t actually see the good things about our life. We all want something that we don’t have and think about it alone. This isn’t right. Kindly try to focus on other good things in your life. If you have problems with your husband/wife or children, then think about your parents and how they bought you up. If you have health issues, I know its hard to ignore your pain, but see how Sai has blessed you with good people to take care of you.
2. Read Good Books:
I know none of you want to follow this request. Please try it once. You can read Sai Satcharitra but if that’s not making you happy, read Vishnu Sahasranama regularly.
If you need inspiration, happily read any books of your choice which can inspire and motivate you.
3. Listen to good Music:
When you are depressed, You only need solution to your problem but life isn’t a Instant coffee friends. So hang on there and simply listen to any instrumentals. Close your eyes and be at peace. Meditate on the music you listen to. Your life will be good
4. Do Naam Smaran – Chanting of Gods/Saints name
This is something I keep repeating for life time. You can remember Gods name in mind regularly and often. Keep doing naam smaran peacefully and your life will be good. Some day you are going to be happy friends. see – Shirdi Sai Chant
5. Divert your mind and see if there’s a bigger opportunity:
I have seen Sai devotees in relationship problem worrying so much and praying saibaba to bless them with this alone, that alone. See..Don’t be specific. You can’t drag people who hurt you or who don’t respect you. Simply move on and listen to the call of better opportunities. You deserve someone better and something really better. So be in peace.
6. Look at people below you:
See how many people are suffering worse than you. You are blessed with beautiful life and hence you can do little good deeds to people who needs your help. Do any thing you can afford. Keep doing good deeds and speak good. Your life will be good.
I already wrote a article to inspire people who are fed up and my writings and tips are repeating…anyway tried my best
Below are the articles i wrote years back
I forgot what i wrote in those articles but hope it makes sense.
Try to be confident and keep spreading the Art of being good and Doing good.
Give up your desire and make your life more meaningful. You deserve a better more beautiful happy life and sai will surely show you a way
Sai ki jai