Om Sai Ram friends,
There are few people who’s married life will be smooth. They get married and begin to lead their life peacefully. But there are few who go through tough time after getting married.
Either their husband or wife themselves are not good or their in-laws do not treat the well. So eventually, the marriage ends up in the women being separated and also divorce.
One of the emails, I do not know what to reply is that when women write to me saying that they had a misunderstanding with their husband and they were separated and now want their husband to change his mind. I like to be practical friends.
Sometimes, you try your best to adjust but sometimes, you should take hard decisions to secure your children’s lives and of course your life too.
Let’s see the story of one of my good Sai devotee friend from Kolkata
Myself Debanita from Kolkata. I would like to share my experiences with all devotees of Baba Sai.
My family and I never ever worshipped Sai Baba. We did not even know him properly. There are very few Sai Baba temples in Kolkata. From my childhood, all kinds of spiritual activities like visiting temples, prayers, meditation, etc attract me a lot.
My mother is suffering from chronic illness for 20 years. But still, we were a happy family. In January 2016, I got married. It was an arranged marriage. I was really very happy. But my happiness lasted for 1 month only.
The person whom I got married was a fraud and mentally ill. He and his mother tortured me a lot. Each and every day, I had to face humiliation and torture.
After one month, I decided to come back to my paternal house and filed for divorce. My parents broke down mentally. It was really a tough situation for me and my parents. I was totally distressed.
I visited lots of temples, prayed To God for a new beginning. But there was no ray of hope. My parents were searching for a new life partner for me. But we were not getting any suitable matches.
Two years passed away in such a pain.
One day, I was sitting in front of my office computer and doing some official jobs on Google, but on my mind, one thing was going on. I felt, where I can find some happiness and some positive news?
Suddenly, one page opened up which was ” A Sai Baba temple in a remote village in West Bengal”. It was a bit surprising to me. I looked into it. I came to know that there’s a Saibaba temple in this village.
Though it was too far from my house, and a totally unknown place to me, still, I decided to go there by that week. My parents also allowed me to go there alone.
That day, some Railway renovation work was going on and hence no express train was available. I became so depressed. But I sat on the bench of the platform and prayed to Baba to help me to reach the particular village by any means.
As I was traveling alone, I was a bit tensed. I was astonished that only my Train came on time and I reached peacefully to the temple. I visited there, prayed to Baba for a good life partner and came back home on time.
After that, I always think of Baba Sai and started worshipping Baba. I kept Sai Satya vrat for 9 Thursday. And started reading Sai Satcharitra. Just after completion of my vrat someone from the USA contacted my parents for marriage alliances. Things went on smoothly and finally, I got married to him in May 2019.
My present husband is really a good human being and loves me a lot. I am also very happy with him and his family also. I believe that my husband is a great gift of Sai Baba to my life.
I used to visit a small temple near my house located in Shirdi Sai Baba Temple, Sodepur Kolkata. I usually go there after my office hours. One day, after completion of the Saptah parayan of Sai Satcharitra, I went to the temple for puja.
That was 7:30 in the evening. I brought some sweets for Baba and offered puja in the temple. PanditJi there didn’t accept my puja as the time was over for offering puja. I was a bit disheartened and sat down silently.
I thought that maybe, Baba doesn’t want to accept my puja. I came out of the temple and distributed the sweets to the beggars. And came back home with a broken heart. After that, I did not visit that temple for 3 months. After a long time, one day, I went to the temple at the same time( around 7:30 pm).
I went to the temple shop to buy some flowers for Baba as I knew that pandit Ji would not accept my puja as the puja offering time was over. But I was really surprised when the unknown shop keeper boy told me
” Didi pandit Ji will accept your puja. That day when pandit ji did not accept your puja and you were very depressed, management ordered that no devotee should return without offering puja to Baba. That is why pandit Ji will accept puja at any time of the day.”
I was astonished. That shop keeper didn’t know me. How he could know the incident? I didn’t share anything with anyone else Baba.
Hope you like this Sai leela friends. My friend is a very kind human being and know her for past 2-3 years. I did not know she has gone through a lot of sufferings after her marriage. Thankfully, though Sai Baba made her wait for the whole 2 years, Sai also blessed her with a kind husband.
Let us pray Saibaba for her safe trip to the US and start living her life peacefully with her husband.
The message in this Sai leela is simple. If you have gone through painful married life, then have patience. Even if divorce is a solution, then, go for it but discuss with elders in your family before you take the decision. Give some time to it to see if things gets better.
Else, remember Saibaba will bless you and take care of you. Sai has assured that women who are widowed and who are separated from their husband are his own children and he will take care of them with heart and soul.
Om Sai Ram