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The world is behind virtual relationship. Sai wants you to be real

Sairam friends,

These days, I myself have habit of often using my mobile phone. In the past 4-5 years, growth in Communication tech like cloud messaging platform has made people get hooked to their phones. Artificial intelligence and Augmented reality is going to change the way people live and communicate in the years to come.

Many girls and guys don’t even realize that they are building relationship on a virtual platform.

A simple example – You can see photograph or video of your girl friend, boy friend on your mobile. You tend to perceive that its a true relationship that you are building. To be honest, the kind of affection you experience when you see a photograph of your partner may be pure but does the same experience felt in the them?

You could never guess what’s going on in someone else’s mind and hence when you build a relationship virtually, chances are that you might eventually end up with a blank feeling. You might be totally involved andĀ  committed to the relationship and your partner might just move on when situation changes.

Secondly, You must think about your belief system.

You tend to believe someone who’s always happy to talk to you over phone or send you photographs or do a video chat etc. You believe in what you see. Your trust keeps on increasing. Hence, when situation changes and the other person wants to end the relationship, you may not be able to accept it. The more you texted, spoke and saw your boy friend/girl friend, the more you believed that you are going to marry them and live with them.

What if situation isn’t favourable to marry and you are forced to breakup?

So when ever you are in relationship, try to ask yourself if its virtual or the other person also has sincere interest in you. This doesn’t mean, your soul mate or you must travel to meet each other. Meeting someone for a day or week and then continuing a virtual relationship is not right. I want you to question yourself if you and your partner really have intention to marry and lead a life together? If the answer is yes, ask yourself what if things are not going to be favourable to marry?

In this case, please reduce your virutal communication and have some space for yourself. This way, you can safeguard yourself and avoid the trauma you might face in future.

Why I write this article? 2-3 weeks back, on a Saturday night, Baba blessed me with a very divine dream.

You don’t own what you seeĀ 

I see myself walking in a highway in a village. I see some men are poor with a road side cooking shop but they work so hard and feed their customers with lots of excitment. ( Shows how real-life works for many- Through hard work).

Then, I see a huge Dhuni kind of place. I enter a temple. The temple is very ancient. I see a girl as beautiful as Aishwarya rai who is dancing for the Goddess in the temple. I make a video and go behind the girl where ever she goes trying to make video of her performance. Then, I also see Lord Dattatreya and Shirdi Saibaba in temple. I feel very divine in this dream especially since I ordered my new mobile phone only after this dream. It was like Baba telling me, surely you can talk and make videos for Sai children.

That’s it.

I woke up and tried to interpret the dream. Somehow, since the girl I saw was like Aishwarya rai, I tried to analyze if there’s a message here. That’s when I remembered the song from an old Tamil film.

I wanted to make this video for a long time. Its very difficult to stand in temple in speak because even if people see me speaking like a fool looking at mobile, I get stuck. So I safely sat inside my car and made it. All my sai friends liked the video especially since everyone these days are using their mobile often.

Its OK to use mobile phones and keep messaging or looking at your friends but remember to be real.

I want each and every one of you to find true love. True love has to be real. In-person. It must have sincere affection in both the person involved.

I am not writing this article for today. After 10 or 100 years, things are going to change a lot. Saibaba don’t want the world to go behind virtual relationship. Please be real.

If you realize that your relationship is completely virtual, distract yourself from such communication and focus on real stuff in your life.

Enjoy life with friends near you, Speak to good people around you, Love your work and be free.

Being free is more important than being happy.

I am free by Sai grace.

Ask yourself if you are a slave to any relationship? If yes, please ask Saibaba to help you.

Sai will do good.

Be real.

Here’s the video

Om Sai Ram

Venkat

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