Sairam friends,
We have been keeping Navratri Gollu from childhood. As my Amma is getting old, it’s not an easy task to get things done but I always tell her that I will take care of it. This evening, I have to take my Amma and neighbor aunty to shop for small gifts that we give for guests who come home during Navratri. Couple of days back, my mom was not well at night and felt dizzy.
A client in Sweden asked for Swedish language support on Testimonial Software which I run and she was happy when I made it. She’s a therapist in Sweden. That’s when I realized most emails and messages I receive are from people who suffer in relationship issues.
People read my blogs or watch my videos only when they are in search of something in their life or during their struggles. You should be gifted if you know how to show devotion on Shirdi Saibaba because Sai works deep in your mind. He can transform you and your mind and walk with you in every step you take.
I love Rahul Gandhi!
There’s a difference between showing devotion on Saibaba, a Goddess and a person. A person can always do mistakes but when I see the current state of nation, I believe, Rahul Gandhi is good leader. I have a lot to write on this topic but shall keep it for another day. When I am roaming in Saibaba temple, I keep watching a tech podcast or some videos on Rahul Gandhi. I am planning something and told Saibaba about it.
Sai blessed me with a dream about Rahul Gandhi in 2024 and today, what I saw in dream came true.
How people get married in India?
I have a very good friend whom I know officially. I usually do not go to any weddings but had to go to his Sister’s wedding couple of years back. He keeps telling that his mother wanted him to get married. Last week, he said that, a girl’s family is visiting his home to speak. I was happy for him.
Today, he said, the girl’s family do not want to proceed as his home is small. They did not mention that though.
This is what I often mention over the years. “Most Indian marriages happens based on one’s personal wealth and the work he or she does”.
In most cases, this goes well.
I understand that you can’t judge someone is good or not but you can easily judge if someone is well settled or not. So, families often fall for what they see externally.
Some sample messages I receive from Sai devotees
Now that you find someone who matches your status, you go ahead with getting married and eventually, there’s an issue, a misunderstanding etc, people immediately look for spiritual support. That’s why I receive several messages and emails related to this.
Couple of girls told me this last month.
Since I have privacy policy, I can give you a summary of what’s happening.
1.People match status and they get married.
2.Six month to 1 year after getting married, when they find that their husband or wife does not behave normally, they start to question a lot.
3.Whenever anyone calls me in such situation, they themselves agree that they found everything was fine with the guy or girl and their family when they planned the marriage.
Devotion to Guru
I personally believe a Guru like Shirdi Saibaba will only do good to you. But I do not believe in Saibaba always doing miracles.
I had a Sai friend called Dimple years back when I was in Mumbai. I had visited her home. Her younger Sister got married and within a week, they realized the guy and family were not good. She could not manage for more than 1 month or 2. Eventually, they had to file for divorce. Later, this girl got married to someone else and she was happy.
I always question why Saibaba cannot stop someone from getting married to the wrong person. Why let them suffer for a short time and in some cases, prolonged period. I do not like to speak about “Karma” in any issues because that becomes easy answer.
I could only suggest this. Do not be desperate for anyone and even for getting married.
Your devotion on guru could bless you with a good husband or wife but sometimes, it takes longer than expected.
My personal request is to do chanting in mind. It could be chanting of any Goddess you like or Saibaba’s holy name like “Sai, Sai, Sai or Om Sai Ram”.
When you do not forget Saibaba for a minute and take decisions based on what really makes a meaningful life, I have a belief that Saibaba can hold you from getting married to the wrong person.
Keep showing devotion in any ways you love.
Keep chanting Saibaba’s holy name.
Have patience when things are not moving ahead as you expect.
Your life will be good.
Venkat
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