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Sai Ram Puja and being true to your Wife

Shirdi Saibaba ashirwad
Written by venkatraman

Sairam friends,

The past few days, I was not able to focus on StarSai since I was not knowing what to write? I don’t know what’s right for my life too and really confused.

I saw a book near one of my friends place with the name “Karni” over it. I was surprised and asked her if she knows someone by that name? She introduced me to her friend by name Karni which made me really feel happy.  I gave her Sai photo and told her that I used to worship Karni mata in 2012/13. I usually never say about StarSai to anyone at work but I was too excited by the very name “Karni”. I told her its a beautiful name and I used to have a site dedicated for her. (Which I eventually deleted.)

She told me that they go to Deshnok every year by bus from Jodhpur as Karni mata is their Kul devi.

When I read the below article, I feel how stupid I have been expecting Sai and all Goddess on Earth to fulfill my desire. Ha ha…Little did I know that I will be like this even after years.

Karni Mata, Incarnation of Goddess Durga

Karni Mata is a wonderful Goddess but she’s too fierce if we pray sincerely. I could not bear her fierceness and hence now a days, I simply remember her once in a while. I know she remembers me a lot. That’s why she would have reminded me to worship her by making me come across this girl by her name.

I am reminded of Karni Mata’s incarnation and what she worked for.

  1. She likes planting trees and taking care of them. (She lived in deserted place of Rajasthan)
  2. She don’t like drinking
  3. She loves people who respect the women in their life
  4. She takes care of the women who is true to her husband.

Why should Karni incarnate in a place like Rajasthan before 600 years. Because that’s where women were ill-treated a lot during those days. It existed all through India and even historians who came to India centuries back recorded that this is a prosperous country but women were not given due respect.

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Sairam Puja in Shubham’s home

Being true to your wife

Now a days, I get so many mails from women who are married. Some have kids to take care too. They write me about how their husband is not bothering them, left them or go behind some other women. I can write them some healing words but really don’t feel like doing. I am fed up reading all these stories but I have to react because I am Sai’s servant. So all I can do is spread this message that one has to be true to his wife.

Please focus on your own family and kids. You might be disappointed with lots of issues in life but be responsible. This is all I can say.

Having said that, equally, I request Women to be true to their husband.

If you are good, Sai won’t have much work to do. He has lots of people to take care. So don’t burden Sai by deviating from your own family and kids.

How lazy I became that I did not post Sai Baba photos all these days? Here’s a beautiful Sai Ram Puja done by Shubham Gautam.

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Sairam Puja with 108 lamps

Here’s the mail from the devotee…

Om Sai Ram

First and foremost I sincerely thank you for spreading so much positivity through your website. I appreciate your hard work and dedication as I know it is not an easy job managing work and a website. But for a devotee nothing is tough or impossible.

I had read about ’50 day Puja of Sai Baba’ on your blog and I had decided that once I complete my Puja, I will do 108 deep pujan on the 50th day and will send the photos to you. However, I did the puja for 50 days without any break but for some reason or another (mostly because of me being lazy) I couldn’t do 108 deep puja on the last day. But today on the auspicious day of Akshay Tritya, I did it and I am so happy that the Holy Lord chose this day for taking my service. As promised to Baba, I am sending you some pics of the Puja. I am sorry for the poor picture quality (I am very bad at photography) but however if you publish it on your website my promise to Baba will be fulfilled.

Thank you and lots of good wishes from my end.

regards
Shubham Gautam

Here’s how graceful and vibrant Baba blesses us from his home

Shirdi Saibaba ashirwad

Shirdi Saibaba ashirwad

I am listening to a Bhajan of Karni Mata after more than 3 years today. I saw a rat in Dwarakamai the night I met Karni. So I believe Sai too wants me to worship Karni. By the way, the reason Karni scared me because I kept chanting her name all the day and she used to show her darshan suddenly at night. It was too fierce for me. None will understand such experiences. These are fierce Goddess like Badrakali. If you remember them day and night, they just show that they exist.

I am happy today, finally I posted some beautiful photos of Sairam Puja.

Sai Baba bless all of you friends.

Om Sai Ram

Venkat

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