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Get rid of the desire to have constant admiration from others

Sairam friends,

I am trying to understand why we get upset in our personal life and work environment. Some people have a need for constant admiration from others. It could be their parents, siblings, friends or colleagues and superiors. The world has all reasons to keep you in the state you are. At times it is because you haven’t worked really hard or been smart to deserve a better place or your environment has not given you the opportunity.

There’s a dark side to your current state in your life and career. Ask yourself these questions.

  1. What are the things I must change personally in order to get out of this situation and grow ahead?
  2. Should I accept this suppression and discouragement or failure as it is and be calm?
  3. Am I responsible for my current state in life or is the environment around me?
  4. How can I make my environment better. If yes – Do it. If No – How do I survive in such an environment.

Most of us give up to persue our work or dreams especially since we listen to others mocking us down and believe that we are not going to achieve what we dream. So better never expect anyone to praise you or appreciate you. People usually won’t even recogonize you for what you are as a person. Why should anyone admire you for your work?

So just be calm and mind your business.

Focus on what you love to do and do it sincerely without any expectation.

Good things happens to people who have patience. Being calm honestly helps.

I am getting late for work

Tata

Venkat

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